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Navigating Divorce in the Workplace: A Guide for Employers

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January is often dubbed as the “Divorce Month,” whether this is a myth or reality, we simply don’t know but January usually marks a traditional spike in the number of couples deciding to part ways, with the pressures of the Christmas season being the last straw.   Alongside moving home, death of a loved one, divorce is one of the most stressful life events that a person can ever go through.

But what does this mean for an employer, I hear you ask?

For employees undergoing this tumultuous phase, the workplace can be either a source of immense stress or a haven of support.  

Going through a divorce can profoundly affect an employee’s performance at work and their well-being. As an employer, understanding how to approach and support employees is crucial for maintaining a compassionate, professional, and legally compliant workplace.

This article delves into the sensitive topic of divorce in the workplace and offers strategies on how employers can provide support to their employees during these tough times. From understanding legal obligations to fostering a supportive environment, learn how to handle these situations with compassion and professionalism.

Challenges Managers Face in Supporting Employees through Divorce

Divorce triggers a whole host of issues.  It encompasses a variety of adjustments, including the physical transition of moving out of the marital home and possibly facing a period of uncertain living arrangements. Additionally, there’s the potential loss of established networks of friends and family who provide support, such as childcare, alongside the need to establish new arrangements for co-parenting and possibly taking on increased childcare responsibilities.  Financial worries may worsen for both parties in the immediate and long-terms, all of which may have a substantial impact on mental well-being.

With this backdrop, managers may find it challenging to support employees going through a divorce for several reasons, most notably the emotional discomfort.  Let’s face it – divorce is a highly emotive topic and managers may feel uncomfortable or ill-equipped to handle emotional conversations or may fear triggering further distress. 

Employers may be wary of saying or doing something that could be misconstrued or lead to legal consequences, especially given the complexities of employment and anti-discrimination laws.

A divorcing employee might exhibit changes in their behaviour or their performance, and managers might struggle with how to address this fairly without disrupting the team’s dynamics or productivity whilst being sympathetic to the individual concerned.

Managers may feel that they might not have received training on how to handle sensitive personal issues like divorce. Without guidance, they may feel unequipped to offer the appropriate support or address the situation properly.

Let’s unpack this a little further!

Divorce : The Legal Obligations of Employers

In the UK, while there are no specific laws that outline obligations solely for employees going through a divorce, there are several legal frameworks and protections that indirectly impact how employers must treat employees undergoing such personal circumstances.

Right to Privacy

Employees have a right to privacy, and employers must handle any information about an employee’s divorce sensitively and confidentially. Respecting an employee’s privacy is paramount. Employers must ensure that any discussions about the divorce are initiated by the employee and that confidentiality is maintained.  An employee may find it difficult to talk openly about their divorce and to breach that confidentiality may break down mutual trust and confidence which could be detrimental to the working relationship.

Anti-Discrimination Laws

Under the Equality Act 2010, there are a number of anti-discrimination laws and employers must not discriminate against employees for being married or in a civil partnership. This protection could extend to treatment related to changes in these circumstances, such as divorce or separation.  It’s essential to ensure that employees going through a divorce are not discriminated against. This means providing equal opportunities and support as you would for any other employee experiencing personal difficulties. 

Whilst divorce affects men just as much as women, employers should be mindful of sex discrimination against women in the workplace, especially those facing a divorce.  It involves treating women unfavourably due to their sex, which can be exacerbated during the upheaval of a divorce. This might manifest in reduced opportunities for promotion, scepticism over their commitment or capability, or inequitable treatment compared to male colleagues, especially in terms of flexibility or understanding extended to them.

These laws are vital in safeguarding women’s rights in the workplace, ensuring they are supported and judged based on their professional merits, not personal circumstances.

Flexible Working

Employees have the right to request flexible working arrangements, which an employer must address reasonably. This might be particularly relevant for individuals going through a divorce, especially in matters of childcare or altered personal circumstances.

Employees are entitled to reasonable time off to deal with emergencies involving dependents. While not directly related to divorce, this can apply to related urgent matters, especially where childcare or dependent care is disrupted due to marital separation.

Employers have a duty of care to ensure the health, safety, and welfare of all employees. This includes considering the impact of stress or mental health issues an employee might experience during a divorce.

While going through a divorce is not in itself a protected characteristic, dismissal or detrimental treatment of an employee due to their marital status changing could potentially lead to claims of unfair dismissal or discrimination.

Workplace Implications of Employee Divorce

When an employee is going through a divorce, it can lead to various problems in the workplace that require careful management.

Firstly, the emotional toll and stress of a divorce can significantly impact the individual’s mental health, leading to decreased productivity, increased absenteeism, or even presenteeism, where they are physically present but not fully functioning due to stress or distraction.

There may also be changes in behaviour or mood that can affect team dynamics and morale, potentially leading to conflicts or communication breakdowns.

From a management perspective, accommodating the needs of the divorcing employee, such as flexible working hours or time off, might strain resources or require adjustments in team workload distribution.

It’s crucial for employers to navigate these challenges carefully to maintain a supportive, productive, and compliant workplace environment.

So what can you do to support an employee going through a divorce?

Managers can take several steps to support employees going through a divorce – consider these:

Provide Practical Support:

Offer information about leave policies, financial planning services, or legal assistance benefits that might help the employee navigate their divorce.

Respect Boundaries:

 Understand that each employee’s situation is unique. Avoid prying into personal details and allow the employee to take the lead in what they share.

Flexible Working Arrangements:

Adjusting working hours or allowing remote work can provide employees the flexibility they need to manage legal appointments and personal commitments.

Change in Workload or Responsibilities:

Temporarily reassigning challenging tasks or reducing workload can alleviate pressure on the employee.  This will help with the team dynamics as well as assist with planning to avoid any additional stress with unexpected changes.

Additional Leave:

Offering extra paid or unpaid leave can give employees the time they need to deal with the immediate demands of their situation.

Well-being Support:

Providing access to counselling services, employee assistance programs, or well-being initiatives can offer crucial emotional support.

Reasonable Adjustments:

Making adjustments in line with the employee’s changing needs, such as a quiet workspace or a change in team dynamics, can also be beneficial.

Open Communication:

 Encouraging open, empathetic communication allows employees to express their needs and concerns without fear of judgment or professional repercussions.

Training for Managers:

Equipping managers with the skills to handle sensitive situations compassionately and confidentially is key.

Be Proactive:

Don’t wait for an issue to escalate. If you notice changes in an employee’s performance or behaviour, offer support and resources proactively.  

Document Everything:

Keep records of any discussions and agreements made regarding adjustments to the employee’s work arrangements.


Although no specific laws mandate support for divorcing employees, the broader legal obligations of fair treatment, non-discrimination, and employee welfare remain pertinent. This approach not only aids the affected employee but also enhances the overall workplace environment.  Be compassionate bearing in mind that this extremely difficult phase will pass and how you manage and support your employee at this time in their life will imbed their loyalty to your organisation.

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Angela Clay

A qualified employment law solicitor and our managing director, Angela has unparalleled legal expertise and decades of experience and knowledge to draw from. She’s a passionate speaker and writer that loves to keep employers updated with upcoming changes to legislation, and is a regular guest speaker on BBC Leicester Radio.